The Rebel Letters is my weekly letter for women who are done ghosting themselves.
Not a hustle plan.
Not a perfect-Christian performance checklist.
More like sitting across the table from someone who gets it—and finally being real-talk honest.
One true story from my real life – the kind that makes you think "oh thank goodness, it's not just me."
A Joy Nugget – one honest, quotable line to take with you and carry into the weekend
A Pinkie-Toe Step – one small, doable move you can practice that day: a real-time Rebel Minute or the exact words for the moment you'd normally freeze. Not theory. Something you can do by the weekend.
A Play Prompt – a 60-second dare to spark joy, wonder, and a little joyful mischief. Come be a Joy Detective: follow what lights you up and start drawing your treasure map back to the woman underneath all the handling.
Dashes of joy and humor through all of it – because pressure is not your calling, and you're allowed to enjoy your own life again.
And if you want to go deeper that week, I'll point you to the podcast episode and my space on Substack, Goodbye, Good Girl.
One story. One spark. One tiny step — and one reason to reclaim joy that actually sticks. Because change doesn't happen in giant leaps. It happens in the moment you choose yourself instead of disappearing.
"Story isn't prophecy—unless we keep living it." - Rachel Harris
You've been good, faithful, dependable — and somewhere along the way quietly stopped recognizing yourself
You're tired of shrinking, over-explaining, and saying yes when every part of you meant no
You want faith that feels like real relationship, not religious performance
You're ready to stop rehearsing your life and actually live it
You believe the woman you're becoming — bright, specific, fully alive — is worth showing up for
If you ever realize it's not your season anymore, you can unsubscribe in one click. No hard feelings, no guilt trip. Just love and well wishes, friend.
"When We Dare to Be Vulnerable, Lives Change, Especially Our Own." - Rachel Harris